As she stood in
front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told the
children an untruth. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said
that she loved them all the same. However, that was impossible, because there
in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.
Mrs.
Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he did not play
well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he
constantly needed a bath. In addition, Teddy could be unpleasant.It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy's
first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He
does his work neatly and has good manners... he is a joy to be around.."
His second
grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his
classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and
life at home must be a struggle."His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and he sometimes sleeps in class."
By now, Mrs.
Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even
worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful
ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily wrapped
in the heavy, brown paper That he got from a grocery bag Mrs. Thompson took
pains to open it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children
started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones
missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of perfume.. But she stifled
the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting
it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist. Teddy Stoddard stayed
after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you
smelled just like my Mom used to." After the children left, she cried for
at least an hour.
On that very
day, she quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic. Instead, she began to
teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked
with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the
faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the
smartest children in the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the
children the same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets.."
A year
later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling* her that she was
still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in life.
Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he had ever had in his whole life.
Then four
more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that
after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further. The
letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had.
But now his name was a little longer.... The letter was signed, Theodore F.
Stoddard, MD.
The story
does not end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy
said he had met this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his
father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson
might agree to sit at the wedding in the place that was usually reserved for
the mother of the groom.Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. Moreover, she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together.
They hugged
each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you
Mrs. Thompson for* believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel
important and showing me that I could make a difference."
Mrs.
Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy, you have
it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference. I
didn't know how to teach until I met you."
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